Closing Out 2025 with Intention and Reflection
- Dominique Thornton, LCSW

- 6 days ago
- 3 min read

As the year wraps up, a lot of us start to feel that blend of nostalgia, relief, exhaustion, and hope. December has a way of slowing us down and inviting us to look back at everything we’ve lived through. Not in a pressured, “fix yourself before January” kind of way, but in a gentle, honest way.
Reflections are a chance to grow, heal, and reconnect with yourself. You don’t need a dramatic breakthrough or big resolutions. You just need space to notice what mattered this year and what you want moving forward.
Why Reflect at the End of the Year?
Reflection helps you:
Make sense of your experiences
Remember progress you might have forgotten
Notice what feels heavy or outdated
Reconnect with your needs and boundaries
Start the new year feeling grounded instead of overwhelmed
There is no perfect way to reflect. There is only what feels true for you.
A Gentle Year End Reflection Practice
Try these prompts slowly. You can journal, think them through on a walk, or talk them out loud.
1. Start With Self Kindness
Ask yourself: “What would it look like to talk to myself kindly right now?” This sets the tone for reflection that’s supportive instead of critical.
2. Notice Your Quiet Wins
Not everything worth celebrating is big or dramatic. Think about:
Boundaries you held
Moments you stood up for yourself
Times you rested even when you felt guilty
Changes in relationships that felt healthier
Days you simply kept going
These moments count.
3. Acknowledge What You Made It Through
What did you survive or navigate this year? Maybe it was stress, grief, burnout, family tension, anxiety, or a heavy season you didn’t talk about.
Name it and honor it. You carried a lot.
4. Ask Yourself What You Learned
Think about what this year taught you about:
Your limits
Your strength
What drains you
What brings you back to yourself
What you want more of
These lessons are usually quiet, but they matter.
5. Consider What You Want to Release
You might be ready to let go of:
Unrealistic expectations
Always saying yes
Guilt around needing rest
Old patterns that no longer match who you are
Energy you spend trying to please everyone
Letting go is not forgetting. It’s freeing up space.
6. Decide What You Want to Carry Into 2026
Instead of resolutions, try simple intentions like:
“I want to protect my peace.”
“I want more calm moments.”
“I want relationships that feel safe and mutual.”
“I want to honor my capacity.”
“I want to make room for joy, even small moments of it.”
Think of these as gentle guideposts.
A Final Moment of Reflection
Put your hand on your heart and ask: “What would feel supportive for me right now?”
Sometimes your body gives you the answer before your mind does.
If You Need Support, We Are Here
If this year brought up heavy emotions or if reflection is bringing things to the surface, you don’t have to sort through it alone. We are here to support you in the transition into a new year.
Connected Therapy
Phone: (775) 622-4799
If you need immediate help:
Reno Behavioral Healthcare Hospital
Carson Tahoe Behavioral Health
988 Crisis Support Line
Here’s to stepping into 2026 with gentleness, intention, and a deeper connection to yourself.



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